After reinstalling and rebooting every device this morning it is working ! So dont know what was wrong
Probably some windows ****.
My problems was happening with pulling, I don't understand the use of the pushing feature! Why would I want to get out of my couch to go to the computer to push a movie back to the living room system !?!?! ... I guess you would want to do that if your only computer is a laptop !
So my problem was a false alarm ... sorry everybody.